I have a 9 year old boy who has always been angry. He had reflux as a baby.

He is very stubborn, angry, tempremetal. He suffers from sever tantrums, fight with everyone, kicks out.

When he is like this he is very obstinate and abusive.

At other times he is very clingy, always looking for affection and attention, and is always telling stories to try and impress us.

I believe that Chamomilla might be the answer. Can anyone tell me what potency to give him, or is there something better suited?

To me that doesn't sound like the kind of problem that you solve with any kind of drug, natural or pharmaceutical. Sounds like the kid just wants someone's attention, or maybe he's searching for a deeper connection with one of his parents.

I'm not meaning to sound like a dick or anything but you're the parent, he's a 9 year old. Take charge of the situation and figure out why he's acting the way he is.

I do not like to prescibe over a forum and in particular not for a mental problem. However angry and clinging are two side of the same coin. See a professional homeopath he will know and the remedy is fairly clear but you have to go to a high potency and that only under case management of a professional homeopath.

Dr Mose

Dear Jon
Regards your child,sounds like the predisposition of a latent Tub miasm. You need to find a trained classical homeopath who fully understands constitutional miasmatic homeopathic prescribing and have a full case done on your child.Discussion forums are not the place for complex cases.

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It might also be very wise to have him checked for Dyslexia or other similar learning disability

These can make a child feel very trapped and their behaviour mirrors their isolation and their frustration

It might also be very wise to have him checked for Dyslexia or other similar learning disability .................................................. .............
Homeopaths Do not use a allopathic DIAGNOSIS for a casetaking. If and when a full and complete casetaking is done all the emotional/mental and physical imbalances come up via symptomology,this can be addressed via the well indicated Antimiasmatic constitutional remedy.

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I have a 9 year old boy who has always been angry. He had reflux as a baby.

He is very stubborn, angry, tempremetal. He suffers from sever tantrums, fight with everyone, kicks out.

NO reply from poster Jondup since july1st?
Why do people post questions and not check up on the replies?

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Hi, you might want to go to Herbal Remedies and Natural Remedies for ADD ADHD Anxiety and More and check under their children's remedies. My daughter's little boy had issues. Anger and temper tantrums, we started using Native Remedies 'Tula - Temper Tantrum Tamer.' This is a homeopathic remedy, and is easy to take.

He is a completely different child now. Go online, you can ask questions and someone does respond.

Also, try to get the book "Medicine Moms" by Arlene Uhl, and "Your Vital Child" by Mark & Angela Stengler. Excellent, excellent books on alternative medicine for the care of the family.

Hope and pray this helps. McGranny5

"we started using Native Remedies 'Tula - Temper Tantrum Tamer.' This is a homeopathic remedy, and is easy to take.............................................. .................................................. ......................"
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Just An Example of what ingr. are in One these "combination"Native remedie" formulas:
Classical Homeopathy DOES NOT use Combination remedies

• Quercitin is a well known flavonoid, usually found mostly in onions and apples and is considered to be a 'building block' for other flavonoids. Dietary flavonoids are important and powerful anti-oxidants found in fruits, vegetables and herbs and can also support immunity, healthy blood vessels and circulation. Quercitin is known for its ability to maintain healthy histamine levels. Other benefits include healthy circulation and the maintenance of stable blood sugar levels.
• Euphrasia officinalis (Eyebright) has been used since the Middle Ages to keep eyes healthy and bright. It may be used topically, but is very beneficial taken internally. Other benefits include the maintenance of good vision and eye health.
• Arsen alb. (15C) is a remedy with a wide variety of uses. Arsen alb. Has proved beneficial in maintaining skin and nervous system health, as well as in the maintenance of a healthy, clear respiratory system.
• Nat. mur. (D6) - a biochemic tissue salt which has an excellent effect in supporting healthy fluid levels in the body, including the eyes, nose, sinuses, chest, mucous membranes and skin. Other benefits include feelings of well being and nervous system support.
• Kali mur. (D6) - a biochemic tissue salt with a wonderful soothing effect on all mucous membranes. Regular use of Kali mur is also beneficial in supporting liver functioning, as a glandular tonic and to maintain health in blood and nerve tissue.

Taking these Combination remedies will only suppress/palliate the symptoms,NOT cure them,in fact will make a "simple" case- verry "complex" and difficult for any homeopath to untangle.
Combination remedies are used by Laypersons that buy over the counter meds,for a proper cure you need to seek a trained practicioner in person and have a proper casetaking done,here are NO shortcuts.Sorry Granny.

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Yeah, they do scream and yell and do all of the rest of the stuff described here, but so do at least two dozen others and probably eleven-hundred-thousand gazillion others when we're finally through discovering what everything in the entire universe produces and cures when potentized. Cham. is not the remedy for obstinant and abusive children. It doesn't work like that, anyway. Cham. patients can be extremely loving. What are his actual symptoms?

Location, sensation, modalities and concommitants. What is so difficult to understand about this first parameter of symptoms? Then there's the hierarchy of symptoms, but you need accurate symptoms before you can evaluate them in hierarchical importance. What actual symptoms? Details, details, details, and don't make stuff up. Don't ask leading questions. People can't hide their symptoms, especially children. What are his symptoms?

BTW, how come this appears to be difficult for everyone who comes here? Somebody fix the damn questionaire, please, for this is nonsense. It's the totality of uncommon symptoms. None of the rest of them mean diddlysquat.

Somebody tell me a chicken joke, because this is very annoying. How do blondes turn on the lights? They open the car door, silly! Why do blondes always stop when they come to doors? They can't remember which way to turn the knob, silly! They make me drool, though. See, this can be fun, too.

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Albert, also Hahnemannian444B