This is a continuation of the thread that was closed "my sons constitution"

I gave the calc carb 200c yesterday at midday and his sleep was very restless. Every time i checked on him he had thrown off the covers and was tossing and turningin bed.
He awoke early and played in the hallway until i called him in with me. This is unusuall for him to come out of his room in the am. usually he loves to play alone in his room , on the bed usually until i get up ( he would play alone for hours)

Today he is behaving like a little tyrant, being very obstinate and whiny. He is repeating himself over and over, when we tell him "no" he will not let up. He is continually calling his father "stupid" and if i correct him for anything, i am "stupid" too. He says "i don't want a daddy/ mommy" depending on who had to correct him.

He has been told to stay up in his room for a quiet time, like he does every day, and he refuses to accept it ...as i write, he is repeating "i want to come down now" He has been saying it now for a LONG time, although i've been up to talk to him many times. He is also deliberately being loud because his dad is napping(or trying to)

He complained about a tummyache this morning, and hasn't had a BM, but says it feels better. It seems to get better when he moves aroud, but then out of the blue he will complain of it hurting.

Today , the whole behavoir thing started because he wanted to sit at the outside chair at a resteurant we were trying to have lunch in. He wanted to sit in the seat his father was sitting in, just because he wanted to make him move. He was unable to verbalize what he wanted, he just kept whining and escalating his tone of voice. We had to leave.

He has acted this way in the past, so this behavoir is not entirely new, but it is very intense and unremitting. I don't see an end to it soon.

I'm trying to decide whether or not this is a normal aggravation and i should ride it out, or maybe i should antidote and just do nothing.

By the way, he seems to fit calc carb in many ways. I did do my own research before i gave him 200c.

What should i do, wait it out or antidote??

Right now i must do something because i can hardly stand to be around him...

The first thing you should do is take something for yourself!! ( Re your last sentence!) Have you any Rescue Remedy?

Dear Stclaire,
Hang in there.Father,son,child to be, and mother.
Much of what your son is expressing is influenced by the mode/mood of the household; Much tension; yet , by no means do I say this in a 'negative' sense.
Regroup; Find common ground between the 3 of you ; allow dis-ease to be just that and nothing more. Family 1st;verbalize /express what 'love'/emotions you can summon .It is only a thought away.

Dis-ease may twist and pry;but WE always have a choice on how to interpret what we are experiencing.I am not trying to appeal to your logic ; but rather empathatically send you my concern through type-written words.Our remedies have boundaries as we do; but the remedies are here to help not do our task at hand. Find safe ground emotionally and mentally; and allow what is safe to reach out ;stablize;survive. No disease can stop a safe retreat.From this safe viewpoint initiate your tactics ; and allow your will to dictate. You 'will' find much of what is happening can be buffered by diverting habitual reactions . Find why you are a family; and what attempts to make you 'feel' otherwise.

Sorry for the non-remedial narration. I care, I guess that is all I am saying.

It is too easy to say it will all work-out; But I will say, "What you 'will' will be." May appear silly; but somehow it seems fitting (?).

Seems like a clear aggravation, confirming the remedy, wait, it should calm down after 48 houers, if not it gives a message of a possible to low potence, and a higher one must be used, one M, but i would preferr that you wait some more time.
This is, if you still want my help, if not i stop posting. Appreciate if you notifie me about your decision, thanks.
Since i started this treatment, i am obligated to help you out further, the way i can, after that i do probably leave this BB for good, as it takes to hard a toll on me, to try to help.
If any that needs my attention fast, mail me.

Thank you everyone for your replies.

Ricky, good suggestion. He is asleep now, but i was definately in need of something today. Hopefully it will abate by morning.

John, I appreciate the kind words. you are correct in the need for us to "regroup" for the upcomng reorganization of this family. I know it does not just depend on finding the correct remedy.

GM, I am very gracious for all of the help you have given us . It would be a shame if you left the BB for good, but if it is taking too much out of you then i would hate to think of you sticking around just out of obligation. Do what you need to do.

I have no expectations that you must stay to help us, as i said to you earlier, i value your opinion. I have been trusting and following your advice. I also wish to hear the opinions of others as i am trying to learn for myself how to take personal responsibility for my and my families health.
As i told you, i meant you no disrespect. So i suppose the choice is yours.

Best Wishes , K stClaire

From Margaret Tyler: "Think of the work that Dr. Kent is doing in the world today, through his scholars, through the men he has kindled and inspired, and taught, and the men that they, in their turn, have taught and are teaching. Believe it, there is no greatness in the world but through service.
He that would be great among you, let him serve. Teach! Help! Strengthen! Hearten! Inspire! Freely we have received freely give - and of the best that is in you."

But she was a woman and usually women are more "servile" than men (they - genetically -know they have to serve their children!!).

You are not wasting your time, GM, and ,if this can mean something, i would be very sorry if you will leave the BB (but St.Claire is right: it must be your choice).
I hope you can review your decision.

Thanks for the encouragements, but i must decide, if it continues, as i am far to mutch sensitive, it nauseates me to se all the evil in humanity, and it makes me depressed to a point where i would seem to give it up, all, as there are days that i see no use in what i do, it becomes nothing, the help i try to give, and im sutch a person, that, if that, is lacking, or useless, life seems not worth living, "gather thyself ritches, not on the earth, but in heaven",( some a..h.... will translate this into that i want a statue a erected after my death) the little i do, gives me a good feeling for some houers, and is the only joy i got, that is worth seeking, "woe, upon thee, who taket away a poor mans only joy,for the sake of thine hard heart, thou and thy house art banned forever ".

Sometimes, i take tooo mutch pride in it, but i try to be aware of that, and i assure you, that is not easy.
Lets see what yk2 brings, if the evil ones is compliant, as it is now, the days are hard, evil is worked up into a frenzy, everyone will feel the wrath of evil, untill it passes.Its hard keep up the torch in the storm, you never now, untill the storm is passed over...........if your light shines, even if just a little glow.....or there will be utterly darkness.( a tale worthy of Veratrum, Aurum, Lachesis,lycopodium).

We are all"dust in the wind".

GM, I wanted to confirm that calc carb was definately the right choice far my son.

He is still very peevish and quick to fly off the handle, still alternating (today) with the "lovey dovey" behavoir towards me. He is also still mean to his dad when i'm around. He also still complains about his tummy hurting.

The reason i'm so encouraged is that i spoke with his teacher today. She has told me that in class he is usually very "pent up" and will not show how he truly feels. Many times he won't even speak. He has also painted so hard on his paper that he put a hole in it and kept on going, she thought that he was acting out frustration by painting so hard.

Today however, she observed that he was having to deal with his feelings , things that frustrated him in a more open way. She said that she felt she was observing the real him for the FIRST TIME. He has been with her for 2 years 3 mornings a week.
She had to step in and intervene a few times, but she saw that as positive, he tried to be nearly invisable before, mouth closed tightly.

He is saying things at home like "i'm going to rip up your books" speaking of destroying things that he knows we love, and talking about how things are going to "kill " him, such as eating his green vegetables.
Still very persistant in his negativity, will still repeat the same phrase over and over

If only we can have the strength to be patient with him while he goes through this re-wiring, or unveiling.

I will need to know how to follow up with this, as the need arises. For now i know to wait for a while to see what happens

Anyways, thank you for your help , please reply if you want to.

K stClaire

The only thing to do now, is to wait, up to a month, but notifie me if changes, or new symptomes arise, or after a mont there are leftover symptomes.
Time will show, for myself, im using somthing to get rid of my oversensitivity, expressed in the above post. Im only a human myself, even if some like to referr to me as somthing entirely different.
Thank you.

GM,

My son seems to have reverted back to where he was before, with emphasis on extreme shyness. In social situations where he is not familiar, he is PAINFULLY SHY, and won't even open his mouth, and when he feels put on the spot, his words are rude and angry (he has been a little more outgoing lately, and these are older recurring symptoms) I am still waiting, and wonder if this is part of the healing process.

The causation may have alot to do with having a mother that is so irate and depressed , plus the fact that he knows soon he will no longer be an only child. He is so reactive to MY moods that i feel if i weren't here he would have a totally different personality.
I wonder the nature vs. nurture????

His father and i are both introverted and both have the tendency to be dpressed.

I suspect that homeopathic treatment will help to peel away the layers that he takes on from his surroundings and eventually reveal his true constitution, or true self.
As his teacher referred to him as "pent up"

My heart breaks to see how shy and uncomfortable he can be, and i feel somewhat responsible, as i've made so many mistakes with him (due to my own weaknesses and problems) I wish i could help him.

No change in bowels , many days he tries to go and nothing will come out. His tummy still hurts, esp after eating.

One thing that i should mention is that he REFUSES to use the batheroom in any place except his own house or his one grandparents house (his second home) Yesterday, when at a friends home, he held it is until his pants were wet, and STILL REFUSED to use their bathroom...waited until we reached home. This has been a constant that i forgot to mention.

I just wanted to report this change, i wondered if he could be lycopodium, having had positive results last august to one dose of 1m pot.

Anyways, thank you for your help , I will also moniter the changes he experiences in school- his teacher will be able to help me clarify further,

K stClaire