I am looking for a remedy to help my 3yr old daughter.

She has had hearing loss for 1 year and has had no sign of infection. Hearing tests reveal it to be a middle ear problem with both ears.

She also is speech delayed due to hearing loss.

Other symptoms(?) -
She is a strong thumb sucker and has already done damage to her upper palete.

She scratches her nose while she sucks her thumb - going on 2 years.

She is hot at night and sleeps naked or in her diaper.

She says her body hurts and grabs her tummy when she gets upset.

Otherwise she is a well tempered child, happy, joyfull.

She is fair skinned, skinny, small frame, dark haired.

She enjoys vegetables and fruit the most.

Pregnant with her during brother's bone marrow transplant. Brother died when 5 weeks old.

*We have taken her to a Homeopath locally, prescribed Phospherus30x. Didn't see any improvement in her hearing or other symptoms.
* also, I tried graphites30x. Didn't show any improvement.

PLEASE HELP!!! DOCTOR'S WANT TO PUT TUBES IN HER EARS!!!