Dear Jiggy
Nat Mur is one of the most powerfull remedies,using it for the indication you have listed is useless unless all your symptoms match nat m.
The increase of fluid in your system can be elliminated via an herbal tea called 'dandelion'.(not homeopathy)
Nat mur is most helpfull in chronic grief symptomology,loss of loved one,grief over family member..............etc
nat mur covers all miasms psoric,sycotic,syphlitic,tub..................
more on nat mur at ;
www.homeoint.org
go to materia medica on line type in the name of any remedy(MM) on website listed
GT