FYI: 70% of americans have genital warts at some point in their lives!
STDs should not be something people are ashamed of. Something SO contagious and essentially NORMAL should not be something shameful!
If someone accidentally passed a common cold onto you, wouldn't you take care of yourself? And who would you blame? Probably, noone, this stuff just happens.
Take care of yourself, get checked out, make sure your husband gets checked out, it is TREATABLE, and before you know it, you'll be back to normal.