Hi Folks,

I am new here so please be patient. I am desperate for help. I have lost my beautiful loving son. He has turned into a child I don't even know anymore.

Over the past few months he has turned into a defiant, aggressive, beligerent child. He has always been stubborn and irritable but now he is at times uncontrollable.

I have read many other posts so I will try to get all the information in here but will repost as needed.

Pregnancy- Unexpected, I was very ill throughout, polyhydramnios at the end, not very active in utero, I am milk intolerant, Csection delivery

Infancy-poor sleeper, hard to console, colic, lots of spitting up and many formulas tried, prefered rocking and bouncing, bad "baby rash" on face for about one month
frequent ear infections
Toddler- Slow to talk and walk, but very social, too affectionate toward strangers, assymetry of left face, sleep apnea, more ear infections and bronchitis, happy, self limited diet, refused milk after bottle removed, never really played or entertained himself, happy
Preschool- Eye surgery and T/A, tooth decay(good hygeine), bowel trouble constipation, diarrhea, hospitalized once for this, keen sence of smell noted, afraid of sirens fireworks, became stubborn and high maint., needed tags out of clothes, hard to buy shoes, refused zippers, hard to transition from winter to summer clothing, biting nails,less happy
School aged- starting to defy athority, poor fine motor skills, no friends his age, still no playing indep., short attention span except with reading and TV, poor eye contact, touching anus and penis frequently, afraid of stairs and escalators, even less happy
NOW- 2 recent moves(sold our house/new house not ready lived with in laws for 2 months then into our house), aggressive, swears, can't take no for an answer, hits, bites, kicks, throws things, doing poorly in school, poor math skills, great reader, poor writer, almost phobic of needles, seems VERY sad.

Any suggestions would be appreciated. I miss him so much it hurts.

Thank you,
Jaymi