I was looking at Boger's book...the pages that Heir Hans pointed out..the pressure on spine one only refers to external pressure...I don't know if that makes a difference. Phos was a 3 in all three rubrics but Sil came out big 5 in two of them. And some others...Lyc..

Anyway...Heir Hans is totally right about information coming in bits by bits and I've got a lot of bits from talking to my daughter-in-law...the daughter of this woman.

She grew up in a very wealthy family with live-in servants and her mother was not a nice person, nor was the father who went along with the mother. She never felt that she was good enough. She didn't feel loved by her mother. Her mother wouldn't come to her wedding because she disapproved that she was marrying a poor catholic boy. Consequently...she has expended a lot of energy working with charities and voluntering with disadvantaged kids--trying to make others feel loved and cared for.

She hates controversy. She would never confront anyone. She is afraid of water, escalators and heights. She has many many of the same friends she had as a child or in college.

It sounds to me like phos from what I read in sankeran. Snoopy...is this a go?