Dear Warren,

I read all your answers and first of all, let me just reassure you that as homeopaths, we are totally nonjudgemental; in fact, if we should ever offer an opinion or try to give advice,
Father Hahnemann, from up in the sky, will personally cause lightning to strike!
(Does anybody know the remedy for that?) All we're trying to do, in asking these questions, is find a remedy that matches your symptoms and state of mind.

The remedies are known for their physical complaints, their food cravings, their personalities, and a whole host of things you don't normally associate with a "medicine", which is why we ask so many seemingly irrelevant questions. I just don't want you to think we're prying or being judgemental. OK, here we go:

With regard to your low energy, I'm very anxious to find a cause for it. What about the job loss?
How were you before the job loss? In fact, tell us when the last time was that you felt you had a normal amount of energy, both sexual and otherwise.

Other than sexually, how does this lack of energy affect you?

You lost your job last summer, how have you filled the time since?

You say you're worse from junk food. Did you perhaps have a long period of indulging in such food? Could you tell us which foods those were. Is it possible that such an indulgence is what brought your energy down?

You say that along with the low energy is irritability. How does this manifest itself, as we are all irritable sometimes.

You say that you are worried about women and especially the one in New Jersey. What is the worry with regard to this woman?

You say that when you're upset, you write your feelings down, that if you don't write your feelings down, you keep rehashing the incident in your mind so that you won't forget what happened.
Why is it important for you to have a record of what happened?

You say you tell people off when they don't follow through with their plans. Would this be virtually anybody--inferiors, peers, superiors?
When it's over do you have regrets? Apologies?
How do you feel after telling a person off for not following through or changing their mind?

It seems that there were 2 really hard times for you--correct me if I'm wrong--one was your father dying. Was that hard because you missed him or because you had to move and leave your girlfriend? Do you feel that you ever bounced back from that? Second was the taking care of the neighbor--was that before or after moving to the midwest? What were your duties and how did you get roped into doing this? Could you have said no? Do you feel that you have bounced back from this? What lasting effect has this had?

You say you have a fear of failure; do you have stage fright? How are you before you go on stage?
Are you in a band or a solo artist? What kind of music do you play?

What was the strife between you and your father all about?

You say girls always take to you right away, and this makes you nervous because you think you'll blow it at some point and they'll reject you; so, tell me what happens here: you try to retard your enthusiasm about them so when they let you down you won't be hurt? You revert to your loner ways from childhood, a role you feel comfortable in? It's funny that you desire the limelight, the attention of thousands, but the attention of one person frightens you.

Warren, I see that you are really into chocolate, do I exaggerate? On a scale of 1-10, how much does chocolate mean to you. Do you make sure it's in the house? Do you feel deprived if you've forgotten to buy it?

You say that your life ought to be so much more than it is. What's standing in your way of moving forward?

Tell me what the problem is with standing in line.
Is it the idea of standing, which you say is your worst position? If you could lean on something, like a supermarket cart, would you still hate standing in line? Or is it something other than having to stand? What feeling comes over you?

You didn't answer the question on discharges.
Any discharges? Nasal, etc.? Is there a color, consistency or odor to them?

What's keeping you from moving to New Jersey, after all, we'd be neighbors! (There's an incentive for you!)

Finally, yes, we do object to the word "crappy", especially Barb, who, I am told, is very young, and probably has never heard this word. I just hope she doesn't start smoking and covering her body in tatoos because of this! Maybe you could edit your post to read,
"Unpleasant" or "Distasteful".

Snoopy

[ 21. February 2003, 05:12: Message edited by: Snoopy ]