Thankyou for your advice. The accident was at a local river where family and friends were present, unfortunately Stephanie nearly drowned and was found face up in the water, not breathing. A friend pulled her out and was able to resuscitate within seconds,THANKFULLY! This has obviously left her with fear of her head going into water and has been very clingy ever since. Her personality is very independant, and quite demanding. She is a highly intelligent child for her age, luckily she is able to explain reasonably well how she feels, and this morning she says her arms are hurting?? She still has a nap in the afternoons, but if not enough sleep, becomes highly fractious and tearful. She is a night person and will not sleep before 10pm at night although is able to lie in till 9.30am on occasions. Stephanie overall when well is happy golucky and is quite happy to play on her own. I am grateful for any help and advice given