I didn't suggest a remedy, Avalon...I was observing the case and puts some comments forward, but I also suggested seeing someone in person would be better (at the risk of offending others which is not my intention).

If you're in NYC - you should be able to find someone to treat you....my college has a satellite school there..so maybe you could go to one of their clinics - paying less for the consult - while students take you case but under supervision.

I agree, it's best to start with taking the whole case.
Sincerely,
Lisa

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