Dear Simone,

We women just can't win! Either we get mad cuz our husbands take off as soon as company--especially women friends--come over, or, if they stay and act sociable, we get suspicious!

Look at it this way, if he really LIKED her, he'd be too nervous/guilty to relax with her in your presence. Also, although they may have a lot in common, he may be physically turned off by her. One doesn't enable the other.

I would ask how the jealousy expresses itself? What does it make you do? But if you'd rather consult privately with Dr. Leela, that's fine too.

Snoopy