This may sound a little silly, but here I go.
My family and I have just moved away from friends and into a completly new area. We have all settled very well and are making new friends which I get along with really well. ( My partner also )
After moving here I found out I was pregnant again ( my third ) and this was very very unplanned and unexpected. We have decided to keep the child after much agonising on my part.
My problem is that in the last few weeks, after meeting a few other couples, I have been feeling strange about my relationship with my partner and have been having dreams of him leaving me for other women etc. Some of the women that we have met, I would consider him to get along with very well and even though he has not shown any sort of indication that he is interested in them other than purely friendship, I am finding it very difficult to stop these emotions in my head.
We had visitors last night and he was sitting next to one of the women in question for a large portion of the night. They get along very well and seem to have a lot of personality traits in common and also share a lot of the same likes and interests. I started to feel very insecure and I think he may have picked up on this as he would openly show affection whenever he would get up and walk past.
I feel relly silly for feeling this way, and I keep telling myself that I am just creating this scenario in my head, but It is niggling at me quite a lot. I know that if I approached him on the subject he would tell me not to be redicolous (sp? ) and I have already mentioned my dreams to him on different occasions.
I know that this is in my head, and is not him. Please help me to figure this one out
Simone
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