Thank you everyone for your replies.

Ricky, good suggestion. He is asleep now, but i was definately in need of something today. Hopefully it will abate by morning.

John, I appreciate the kind words. you are correct in the need for us to "regroup" for the upcomng reorganization of this family. I know it does not just depend on finding the correct remedy.

GM, I am very gracious for all of the help you have given us . It would be a shame if you left the BB for good, but if it is taking too much out of you then i would hate to think of you sticking around just out of obligation. Do what you need to do.

I have no expectations that you must stay to help us, as i said to you earlier, i value your opinion. I have been trusting and following your advice. I also wish to hear the opinions of others as i am trying to learn for myself how to take personal responsibility for my and my families health.
As i told you, i meant you no disrespect. So i suppose the choice is yours.

Best Wishes , K stClaire