I'm afraid I don't have very interesting inf. regarding your questions:

Relatively slow eater, doesn't eat a lot at a time, 3 meals a day, Sleeps okay once she gets to sleep.

She had cancer of cervic about l5 years ago. They radiated her which ruined the ovaries, never got another period. Never had any pain associ. with her periods, maybe a little more sensitive in the crying area before the period.

When I ask her any questions, she is very particular that I understand her correctly, that I get it right. She is always giving me the impression, right or wrong, that she is not too much this way or too much that way.

She hardly ever is sick except a month ago and that is on the BB somewhere. Apparent stomach poisoning or flu. She was very grateful that I came over to give her remedies but didn't need me to spend the night. SHe send me a beautiful chosen card later thanking me. When her husband left her 5 years ago I spent a couple of days with her. I don't remember this but she just told me how she couldn't have functioned if I hadn't been there. That she was in a state of shock, a daze.

She is a very dutiful mother and loves her children. Will go home to feed her l8 year old daughter saying "I haven't spent much time with her in the last few days".

She is creatively well dressed all the time, never goes out without makeup.

Worrying about her daughter when she was younger she would read her diary. She is not above doing stuff like this. She recently went to work outside of the home at a temp agency(she lost a home based job painting clothes) and she was so bored filing things that after someone who worked there told her they didn't know why theykept all those files because they never used them, she surreptiously SHREDDED the remaining files. I found this shocking when she told me. She was kind of laughing about it. She was so bored and wanted to go home early, thats why she did it. It doesn't fit in with most of her personality, believe me.I kind of admired her for it but nonetheless it was shocking.

When I have a personal problem and I share it with her she will ask so many questions that sometimes I consider it an invasion. "why did you do that, what are you getting out of it, what are you going to do next..you should do this and you should do that. She budgets money well, I don't. She wants to "fix" my problem. She is almost masculine in her attitude compared with her very feminine voice and manner; however, if I am emotionally upset, she is right there, a real dear, very sympathetic.

In her home she doesn't consider herself obessive-compulsive but if I don't cover the cake back up after having a bite, she will give me a little lecture. I soaked her iron pan once after using it and she got very upset. "This is iron and it should never be in water. It ruins it. Don't you know that. These pans have to be seasoned, etc, etc."

She seems sometimes to be a cross between self-centeredness and generosity and kindness of feelings.

Once I won a lot of money at a casino and I gave her 400. While waiting for the money I asked her if she could lend me 20. After I gave her the 400., she said, "what about the 20". Shes funny like that. Keeps everything separate.

She was in the middle of a "love" affair about 7 years ago with a married man. She was willing to give up her marriage for this man. He couldn't leave his wife because his wifewas ill. My friend got an infection in both her legs and had to be hospitalized. She went to many "psychics" trying to find the answers and ended being disppointed in all of them.

I don't know if I'm too close to her to be objective but she always seems to want to give the impression that everything in her life is under control...and that noone can tell her anything.

She used to talk about how her mother never told her she loved her. She cried about that but that was several years ago.

She would like to be "in love". Just loving someone or having things in common or a good sex life isn't enough. She prefers and values her freedom and independence, but would give it up to be in love. Thats what I think.

I think GM suggested NM from her illness a month ago. Everyones first impression of her is pullsatilla. But sometimes she seems to want to be only in situations where she has some control.,

When her soon to be x husband comes over to fix something at the house, she gets very upset and may cry or get angry...though she knows that she could never live with him again, that she doesn't even like him anymore.

I'll stop now as I have little objectivity about her symptoms and could go on writing forever.