Hello Sweden,

You can consider the following rubrics:

sensitive oversensitive to music
mental exertion agg
sensitive oversensitive to external impressions
conversation agg
constipation; ineffectual urging

My feeling is that she'll respond to nux-v, but you'll need to make sure it fits with the rest of the history. Certainly the ambition and desiring others to do things in her own way are characteristic traits for nux.

Good luck!