Dear Suzi,
Do you or did you and your daughter talk (truthfully) to one another about her relationship with her boyfriend?
It is at this point that the scale tipped for her.
Remember her own words. She didn't feel right about it. But much more emphatic and described differently.
Before this relationship she was (and still is ) a sensitive girl. She had been walking on a border for some time before the relationship. Then comes a boy she likes and he (?) likes her. Think back; can you remember how she felt when she 1st started with this boy. Think ; and maybe you can remember the girl you always referr to ( as before the anorexia) changing.
Do you know what was said to her (when "they mutually decide to breakup")? Do not really answer that question; just remember.
You may find something was said to your daughter that disturbed her GREATLY. If she has not told you, then that still does not mean it did not occur.
Perhaps her friends may know.THIS BREAKUP and what went on during (leading to the breakup) IS THE PIVOT POINT OF YOUR DAUGHTER TIPPING THE SCALE OF DIS-EASE (which she already had brewing; only to be propelled deeper by this circumstance). You may find that the breakup was not mutual.
The main issue is ..What can we do?
IF the right remedy is administered to her while she is taking no other medication, then there will be results.My thinkings tell me that your daughter is not lost to this DIS-ease. Our biggest obsticle (right now) is the MEDICATION she is on. If there was someone with enough courage and conviction in homeopathy (working in accord with support group therepy), then your daughter could be removed from her medications and be prescribed for as the characteristic symptoms show themselves. This is what GOOD homeopathy can do.
But whom will take this on.
Next problem is the parents and those locked into suppressing good symptoms; just because it is better to see her sedated and sort of functioning rather than FULLY EXPRESSING her dis-ease. I do understand that fear is the basis and what or whom is going to take this on so that suppression is not done.Will your homeopath take this responsability? If not , then you are doing all you can do .; And it is NOT wrong what you are doing. The only wrongness I see is the lack of conviction to homeopathy that a "homeopathic" practitioner exhibits. How can any true holistic approach become available if no one is willing to take responsability for the TRULY dis-eased.
Homeopathy leans on allopathy; even if only to put allopathy down. But I will say this for allopathy, Allopathy is not AFRAID to stick it's neck out, stand alone and prescribe. THOUGH I AM TOTALLY (almost) against SUPPRESSION.
I do not know how the BB (here) can truthfully help your daughter by only giving opinions.(This may help you though). We truthfully need to see her,; interact with her; get to know her; and then prescribe. Whom on the BB will be willing to come to your daughter and freely take this case on and truthfully TRY to help.This is if you even wanted or welcomed them.
I tell you that I would.
You do not know me . You have no reason to trust what I say. There is no way for you to know if I am telling the truth.You have no proof of my credintials or licenced ability.
I have no credintials or licensed ability to show or prove to you that I have any ability in homeopathy ; only my talkings and writings; But that is no proof.
Well , that was a mouthful; And ABSOLUTELY NO OFFENSE or ILL is meant by what I have written; only good intentions as far as I can see.Your daughters case stirs me deeply.
Please excuse my fanatical approach; but I feel much better for relating this to you ; And I truly do mean every word I have written and I will stand behind them until PROVEN otherwise.
Please , feel free to respond and/or question.
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