David(s), Thanks for the message - I'm reading and checking Hyos. out. I'll know more in
a bit. I forgot to mention that Lach was given earlier with no result.

Chrisg, Great tip, been there, done that, sometimes it works, sometimes it aggravates.
The stage has to be her's, if I claim it, she'll get furious. Humor is a wonderful distractor
and works sometimes too. As mentioned, when she's totally out of it, a warm bath and
wetting her hair helps. I'm not talking about a regular temper tantrum as one can
sometimes witness in the supermarket. My daughter goes to the extreme of choking,
sometimes even throwing up. Even rescue remedy doesn't reach her at times. It's really
like a fit, like the fuses have burned. - As regards the time outs, they have low priority, as
you remarked, they don't do a good job. Sometimes I call it "mommy time out" just to
give myself a break !

cib, Thanks for your input. Can Tub give an aggravation over 2 years after taking it ? I
wouldn't have thought that possible. I have probed before to find out what she feels when
she's having a fit, she called it "its all too much, I must scream". Of course she helps with
the baby, otherwise it would certainly be much worse. She's very overbearing and
possessive though and I have to protect the little one until she can fend for herself.

Thanks for all the input though, I appreciate it and am taking in what I haven't considered
yet.

My repertorization has shown Stramonium to be quite strong, followed by Tub, NuxV
and Hyos. I'm now into feeling my way into each remedy and comparing it to my
daughter

Claudia