Rita,
As for your son and his anger problems, I can help you with that one! Not me personally, but refer you to a Homeopath that does deal with that. My son had rage and behavioural issues (which are now gone) when he came under the care of Dr. Robert Ullman. He is still being treated for hyperactivity. Read 'Ritalin-free kids' by Dr. Robert Ullman and Dr. Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman. You should be able to pick up one of their books at your local library, or have them order it for you.
Their number is 425-774-5599 and they treat patients from around the world, not just USA.

PS Sounds like you may have needed a repeated dose of Apis.
EMR