I have a 9 y/o son who is extremly disobedient, jealous and vengeful. He gets even with me for disciplining him by destroying my personal belongings. Will not admit he's done these things unless you can prove he has done them. Needless to say he lies, too. He also is jealous of the older brother and destroys his belongings and creations, too. Help! I am afraid of this escalating and someone getting hurt. Also, he has has some treatment with an unlicenced practioner, and he proved quite sensitive to remedies, by reacting violently to some, and seeming to become (proving?) whatever remedy personality he was given. Worried and worn out mom.

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