Dear Cff7, Hi! Your living arrangements dont' disturb me in the least. It's an alternative lifestyle.You made the choice, it didn't come from nowhere...I'm not a homeopath, but I do have experience with homeopathy helping me and my daughter with our problems, called OCD, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. We're freaks, but that's O.K. GM is helping me, and I'm a lot better. But you have to follow his advice closely or you'll screw things up. My daughter is of the age now where she wants to pick her own doctors, she's been through the whole pantheon of big time medicine men, the huncho's of the pharmaceutical world who stuffed her up with chemicals, me, I thought I was doing the right thing then, and focused on paying her bills. I took nothing, just grinned and bared my misery, Kid comes first. And all along what did I know I was poisoning her with meds, Luvox,... anyway, she found a homeopath who's pretty good, and has taken her remedy. She had to deal with withdrawls, from the Luvox, but it's getting better. Me, well, I didn't have withdrawls, I have adjustment situations, pleasent, I might add, to the change over from counting and pacing and doing things over and over all day long. See, I have more free time now, time to dream, explore, create...Have to becareful not to go overboard, but GM is pretty darn good at monitoring my behavior as well as my remedies. I'd like to make a suggestion. Get help from homeopathy, then start focusing on all the cool stuff your daughter can do. That builds self esteem. It also means doing this: stop treating the disease,and start treating the child. By this I mean, if you can get her into the country, into the open air, buy a kite and fly it with her! Run Baby Run! Show her there's a pathway to heaven!!!