Dear Kevin,

It's nice to hear from you again.

I want to clarify a point about parental decipline, which is often mentioned. We don't have a decipline/defiant problem with my son. Fortunately, he doesn't exhibit any anger. His personality type (as you described) is strong willed. We don't have a need nor do I believe in the "reward" system that works for many parents.

Regarding his status: (1) school: as you may recall, he is in an advanced program in a private school. I spoke to the teacher because the work was becoming too easy for him. Once the more challenging work was offered his behavior improved significantly. We're certain that much of the fidgeting, etc., was due to boredom. Also, we continue to provide interesting challenges i.e., he made his first monster model, Wolfman.

(2) Home - he continues to talk excessively, he is still strong willed and fidgets. We hope that over time these will moderate with help from homeopathy and maturity. We are very patient. Also, we accept that these traits are a big part of his personality.

Overall, there are improvements but we would like to see more. Also, even though he eats well, I've made changes. This includes less spaghetios and syrupy food. He doesn't seem to be missing them. (Homepathy must be working).

February is a very busy, hectic, exciting month. Many things coming up. I will keep you informed of any changes, improvements, etc.

Best regards.


[This message has been edited by Gail-K (edited 25 January 2000).]