On thinking it over, GM is right again. It's better to try one thing, in this case homeopathy. Then, when it's time to have the next baby, you won't waste time dabbling. You will know that the remedy worked. Sorry. Maybe she can hold the babies in the premie ward while she is pregnant, this way, she will get some experience, and the babies some love and tenderness. Ah....tenderness....dreams of such and such, and then, the feel of tender, the sound of tender; drifting up from the raggy dark...